As Jason Starr says in his comments, such data exists if and only if $X$ is isomorphic to $Y$.
Indeed, let $\mathcal{X}\to X$ be a $G_X$-gerbe, and let $\mathcal{Y}\to Y$ be a $G_Y$-gerbe. As the (abstract) groups $G_X$ and $G_Y$ are finite, the stacks $\mathcal{X}$ and $\mathcal{Y}$ are finite type separated DM stacks.
Since $\mathcal{X}$ and $\mathcal{Y}$ are isomorphic, the coarse space of $\mathcal{X}$ is isomorphic to the coarse space of $\mathcal{Y}$. We are now done by the following lemma.
Lemma 1. The coarse space of $\mathcal{X}$ is $X$ and the coarse space of $\mathcal{Y}$ is $Y$.