Consider two quadratic forms $Q$ and $P$ over a finite dimensional vector space $V$ over a quadratically closed (or perhaps Pythagorean) field $F$. If $V$ can be decomposed as $V = V_1 \oplus V_2 \oplus \dotsc \oplus V_k$ such that:
- $V_i \perp V_j$ for all $i \neq j$ with respect to both $P$ and $Q$
- No further decomposition of any $V_i$ is possible that respects this property
then is the set of pairs of quadratic subspaces $\{(Q|_{V_i}, P|_{V_i}) : i \in [k]\}$ unique up to isomorphism?
We justify the need for quadratic closure:
The finite fields are not quadratically closed. The conjecture is trivially false when we let $P = Q$ and we consider any finite field, like $\mathbb F_3$.
Let $P(x,y) = Q(x,y) = x^2 + y^2$ acting on $V := (\mathbb F_3)^2$. We get $V = (1,0)\mathbb F_3 \oplus (0,1)\mathbb F_3$ but also $V = (1,1)\mathbb F_3 \oplus (1,-1)\mathbb F_3$. Observe that $Q|_{(1,0)\mathbb F_3} \cong Q|_{(0,1)\mathbb F_3} \not \cong Q|_{(1,1)\mathbb F_3} \cong Q|_{(1,-1)\mathbb F_3}$.
Curiously, the basis $(1,1)$ and $(1,-1)$ is an orthogonal one -- but not a unit one -- with respect to $P$ (and $Q$). This suggests that the question would be more interesting for quadratically closed fields.